I have never experienced anything like it, or even heard of such things in this day and age. Like the line in the movie, "If you build it, they will come..." The call went out, and they came.
Grandchildren flew in from Texas. Siblings flew in from Florida. Local family and friends who came to support us. Phone calls. Hugs. Texts. Cousins arrived at the hospital, bearing snacks, drinks, meals and more comfort food than you can imagine. It wasn't the polite 15 minute visit, saying goodbye and back out the door. It was an old time gathering, sitting in all day long with a family member in ICU. We had up to 12 in the room at one time, and I am surprised that they didn't throw us out. We spent our days sharing stories, laughing, singing, praying, eating, crying. Ministering to each other and to my Mom, who was slowly fading away. My mom, who never wanted anyone to fuss over her, but was such a giver. Who went out of her way to be a blessing, surprising you with Disney tickets, birthday cards or just a little extra to get you through a rough time without being asked. Who had adventures and made friends all over the country. In what would be her last few days, the troops gathered round. They rallied to show her love and help her transition to her heavenly home surrounded by family. I can think of no finer gift that we could have given her.
Birth is a very profound experience, and the joy it brings is no surprise. But what has surprised me is what a privilege it has been to walk through this time with my mother. As much as I grieved to lose her, knowing that letting go was the hardest thing I have ever done, I have been so blessed to be able to share this time with her. It comforts my heart to know that I spent her last nights on earth by her side, taking care of her like she took care of me. I told her I loved her, and one of the last things she said was "I know." I like to think that she heard every word that we spoke to her, and she knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was loved, and she was not alone.
Although it has been heart-wrenching, I am so thankful that I was able to be there every step of the way. Life has come full circle. She was there as I took my first breath, in that same hospital, on the same floor. I was there alone with her, as she took her last breath on earth and transitioned into her new glorified body in heaven. She finished the fight, she ran the race bravely, and is at peace. I am thankful that I had the honor of being by her side to help escort her to the door to the great homecoming celebration that awaits her. It is a great comfort to know that we will be reunited again for the grandest family reunion of all time. I am sure she will have the ice cream ready.
